Message from a nurse Susi Costello, is an American psychiatric nurse, Reiki Master, and Yoga expert. She works with people suffering from severe trauma. In an empathetic note to a 22 years old girl, who had died. Below is the note for her mother

Today I wrote a letter

To a heartbroken mother. From the bottom of my heart, I wanted to say to her don’t believe in those sympathy cards and letters. Don’t believe in words like, time heals everything, God takes the best, and things like may all your sorrows be lessened with time. You will feel more and more dishearten after reading these words.

Also

I just want to say that this moment is the most tragic, heartbreaking, and sorrowful tragedy on this earth. Also, I wish to say to her that there will be times when she would feel like dying. Most people around her will be unable to understand her state of mind. The things she does or says.

That she will find her daughter’s presence, sometimes so strongly that it would appear that she is there somewhere nearby by her side. Ans she is watching every activity that is going around. And at times she will feel blankness as though her daughter is not be seen anywhere.

To tell them

That her life will change totally. She will not be the same person as she has been before. Things will never be the same as her daughter is not with her anymore. Although the pain will never vanish from her heart the whole life. The heart will be able to take place for all the grief and sorrow and pain, joy and love she feels.

I wanted to tell her all this. However, I didn’t have the courage to say all these things to her. Instead, I wrote just this, that I am sending my love, as at this time value of words is pointless and this is the actual truth

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